Since most secondary school open houses are held over just a few Saturdays, it’s best to start visiting schools with your child as early as possible. Try not to wait until Primary 6, as you may not have enough time to explore all the schools you’re interested in. 

Even for schools that aren’t high on your list, do give them a visit. You might be pleasantly surprised by what they have to offer. From my experience as a bit of a "school open house enthusiast", I’ve learned that the more schools you visit, the clearer your sense becomes of what to look out for. Each school gives off a different vibe, and through those visits, you’ll start to see what matters most to you, and more importantly, what feels right for your child.

As you tour the school open house, keep these tips in mind to make the most of your visit:

1. School Environment and Culture

First impressions matter: Walk around and sense the "feel" of the school. Observe how students, teachers, and staff interact with one another. Do students look engaged and proud of their school?

Atmosphere: Ask yourself if your child can imagine feeling comfortable, safe, and motivated in this school environment.

Match to your child’s temperament:

  • If your child is introverted, is the school too high-energy or competitive?
  • If your child thrives in a vibrant environment, does the school provide that buzz?
  • Look out for signs of vibrancy, pressure, or warmth in the school environment.

It is really important to have a vibe check at the schools physically. One independent school that is supposed to be "atas", my daughter came out telling me the school felt gloomy to her and the students didn't feel as confident. I didn't felt good in the school as well.

One neighbourhood school (often frowned upon by some older residents in the area) gave us a surprisingly good impression during its open house. The students were down-to-earth and polite, and the school itself felt bright and spacious. I left with a really positive feeling about them. Over the years, as I continued observing school open houses, I noticed how hardworking they are in changing the public perception. The teachers and students clearly put in effort, and the PSG parents were very supportive too.

My daughter eventually enrolled in another school that she truly loves. We attended the open house twice, and both times she spent hours there, fully engaged in the activities, even skipping her enrichment lesson (with our permission) just so she could stay longer. The school also had the CCA she had been hoping to join, which made her even more excited.

Of course, impressions can differ from person to person. This was just how we felt, and others may see things differently. That’s why it’s always worthwhile to visit schools in person if you can.


2. Attend the Principal’s Talk

Why it matters: The principal's speech sets the tone of the school. It highlights the school's philosophy, culture, and areas of emphasis.

What to consider: 

  • Ask yourself if you are comfortable with the values and direction the principal emphasizes. 
  • Does it align with what you want for your child?

I never realised how much a principal could influence a school until I experienced it through my daughter’s primary school. A principal can truly shape the school’s entire vibe and direction. Although principals rotate every few years, it’s still worthwhile to find out whether the principal’s focus and values align with what matters to you and your child.


3. Explore the School Tours and Program Showcases

Distinctive Programmes: Look out for the school’s Applied Learning Programme (ALP) or Learning for Life Programme (LLP). These reflect the school’s strengths and focus areas.

Pedagogical Approaches: Some schools may demonstrate how they teach certain subjects. This gives insight into how your child will learn.

Subject-Based Banding (SBB): See how the school showcases mixed-level classes and how students experience this flexible curriculum.


4. Co-Curricular Activities (CCAs)

Variety and strength of CCAs: Explore the range of sports, arts, uniformed groups, and clubs offered.

Achievements and culture: Ask about the school's CCA achievements and how they balance commitment with academics.

Fit for your child: Encourage your child to think about what they are interested in pursuing, as CCAs form a big part of secondary school life.

My daughter was very keen to join the mind sports CCA in secondary school, so we focused more on schools that offered this CCA. One school that was once high on our list unfortunately closed down this CCA, so we shifted our focus elsewhere. Had we not visited the open house, we wouldn’t have known that the CCA had been closed down, as it was still listed on the school’s website at the time.


5. Talk to Students (Especially Student Leaders)

Why it matters: Student leaders often conduct tours or answer questions. Speaking to them gives you the real picture of school life. Pay attention to how students conduct tours or presentations. This reflects the confidence and values nurtured by the school.

What to observe: Notice whether students speak with pride, confidence, and authenticity about their school.

  • What to ask:
  • How is the workload?
  • What do you enjoy most about this school?
  • How supportive are the teachers?


6. Attend Lesson Demonstrations (If Available)

Why it matters: Sitting in on trial lessons allows you to see the teaching style and how students engage.

Tip: Use this chance to also chat with teachers about their approaches to learning and discipline.


7. Engage with Parent Support Groups (PSGs)

Why it matters: Some schools invite their PSGs to set up booths or interact with visiting parents.

Value: Parent volunteers can give candid insights into the school community, teacher-parent communication, and how parents are involved in school life.


8. Key Questions Parents Can Ask

  • What support is available for students who struggle academically?
  • How does the school help students discover and build on their strengths?
  • What are the expectations for CCAs in terms of time commitment?
  • How does the school care for student well-being and mental health?


Remember that open houses are not just about finding the “best” school, but the right fit for your child’s strengths, personality, and needs.

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